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愛的感覺
但是慢慢的,隨著彼此的認識愈深,你開始發現了對方的缺點,於是問題一個接著一個發生,你開始煩、累甚至想要逃避,有人說愛情就像在撿石頭,總想撿到一個適合自己的,但是你又如何知道什麼時候能夠撿到呢?她適合你、那你又適合她嗎?
其實,愛情就像磨石子一樣,或許剛撿到的時候,你不是那麼的滿意,但是記住人是有彈性的,很多事情是可以改變的,只要你有心、有勇氣,與其到處去撿未知的石頭,還不如好好的將自己已經擁有的石頭磨亮磨光,你開始磨了嗎?
很多人以為是因為感情淡了,所以人才會 變得懶惰。
錯!其實是人先被惰性征服,所以感情才會變淡的。
在某個聚餐的場合,有人提議多吃點蝦子對身體好,這時候有個中年男人忽然說: 「十年前,當我的老婆還是我的女朋友的時候,她說要吃十隻蝦,我就剝二十隻給她!現在,如果她要我幫她剝蝦殼,開玩笑,我連幫她脫衣服都沒興趣了,還剝蝦殼咧!」
聽到了嗎?難怪越來越多人只想要談一輩子的戀愛,卻遲遲不肯走入婚姻。因為,婚姻容易讓人變得懶惰。如果每個人都懶得講話、懶得傾聽、懶得製造驚喜、懶得溫柔體貼,那麼夫妻或是情人之間,又怎麼會不漸行漸遠漸無聲呢?
所以請記住:有活力的愛情,是需要適度殷勤灌溉的,談戀愛,更是不可以偷懶的喔!
有一對情侶,相約下班後去用餐、逛街,可是女孩因為公司會議而延誤了,當她冒著雨趕到的時候已經遲到了30多分鐘,他的男朋友很不高興的說:「妳每次都這樣,現在我甚麼心情也沒了,我以後再也不會等妳了!」
剎那間,女孩終於決堤崩潰,她心裡想:或許,他們再也沒有未來了!
同樣的在同一個地點,另一對情侶也面臨同樣的處境;女孩趕到的時候也遲到了半個鐘頭,他的男朋友說:「我想妳一定忙壞了吧!」
接著他為女孩拭去臉上的雨水,並且脫去外套蓋在女孩身上,此刻,女孩流淚了!但是流過她臉頰的淚卻是溫馨的,你體會到了嗎?其實愛、恨往往只是在我們的一念之間!
愛不僅要懂得寬容更要及關心,很多事可能只是在於你心境的轉變罷了!你懂了嗎?
當有個人愛上你,而你也覺得他不錯。那並不代表你會選擇他。
你說:你要找一個你很愛很愛的人,你才會談戀愛。
但是當對方問你:怎樣才算是很愛很愛的時候,你卻無法回答他,因為你自己也不知道。
沒錯,我們總是以為,我們會找到一個自己很愛很愛的人。
可是後來,當我們猛然回首,我們才會發覺自己曾經多麼天真。 假如從來沒有開始,你怎麼知道自己會不會很愛很愛那個人呢? 其實,很愛很愛的感 情是要在一起經歷了許多事情之後才會發現的。
或許每個人都希望能夠找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侶, 但是你有沒有想過:在你身邊會不會早已經有人默默對你付出很久了,只是你沒發覺而已呢?
如果你也正在為愛迷惘,或許下面這段話可以給你一些啟示:
愛 一個人!要了解,也要開解;要道歉,也要道謝;要認錯,也要改錯;要體貼,也要體諒;是接受,而不是忍受;是寬容,而不是縱容;是支持,而不是支配;是慰 問,而不是質問;是傾訴,而不是控訴;是難忘,而不是遺忘;是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;是為對方默默祈求,而不是向對方諸多要求;可以浪漫,但不要浪 費;可以隨時牽手,但不要隨便分手。
如果你都做到了,即使你不再愛一個人,也只有懷念,而不會懷恨。
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Marriage is not finding the right person but learning to love the someone you have
Ben said he had propose to Stella and the proposal goes pretty well in Hong Kong (click the link for their photos)and he is very happy yet not sure that is he ready for it.
Then someone text in the line as titled, which Ben and Fabes say "deep stuff" I blogged about this long time ago here... which I always agree about.
Lastly, I would like to congratulate to Ben and...
When does you know that you are ready for marriage? I want to know, please reply in the comment below
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iTunes 8 Genius? Not so genius!
I using iTunes 8 right after its launch and I encounter my first error as I posted to flickr group
I am lucky cause I am in Malaysia Store and I can't view the store =P I can not imagine if I clicked dozen of musics then only found out the iTunes Store bills on my credit card!Whew! the Genius sidebar button Removed!Here we go!
==============Late-BreakersWednesday, September 10 2008 @ 09:15 AM PDTiTunes 8: Properly Using the Genius
Users have found that upon updating iTunes to version 8, the Genius Sidebar is enabled by default. When users select the options to set up Genius (which requires an iTunes account) the sidebar shows songs available in the iTunes store with options to purchase them. Many users have assumed that this is all Genius offers, and hence made the false conclusion that it is purely a marketing ploy by Apple.
Eric Brown8:
"I've got to say Genius is a major disappointment. It barely lists anything in my library (which is 37GB+, so you'd think there would be a few potential matches!) and top-lists what's for sale. What a sleazy marketing gimmick! Fortunately your can shut it off. Too bad, it sounded like a fun idea."While the way Apple presents Genius to first-time users makes it seem that this is the case, this "Genius Sidebar" is in fact the replacement for the "Mini Store" that was available in previous versions of iTunes. The Mini Store is no longer available, and Apple uses the Genius searching technology to present content that's available for purchase in the store, and has move it to the sidebar instead of having it below the song library. Users can hide this sidebar by clicking the arrow button at the bottom-right of the iTunes window.
Despite this apparent "marketing ploy", this technology is primarily available to organize iTunes music that's currently in a user's library. To have it create playlists, select a song and then click the Genius icon (looks like an atom) and the playlist should create. There is a limitation to the Genius, in that it will only include and work for songs that are available in the iTunes store. If users attempt to base a "Genius" playlist off of a song not in the store, an error will notify users that Genius is not available.
When users get Genius to work, it seems to create decent playlists ; however, there have been some users who have noted it does not work too well for certain genres of music, particularly classical music. These limitations may be due to Genius being so new, and Apple claims that since it is based on the input from many iTunes users, it will get "smarter" as more people use it. This indicates that more popular music will probably be better organized and matched at first.
In addition to this, users have been confused by the changes in preferences and settings locations. In iTunes 8, Apple has shuffled the location of the iTunes settings around in the preferences. For instance, the location of where to set import quality is no longer in the "Advanced" tab, but instead is in the "Import" section of the "General" tab. Having had iTunes go through several versions with very little changed in terms of layout and settings, the changes in iTunes 8 have taken a few users off guard. All the original functionality of previous iTunes versions is still there, but might take a little hunting around for.
On a slightly different note, by default iTunes provides links to the iTunes store for finding songs by similar artists as the one that's currently selected. Many users do not appreciate this and wish to not have these arrows function, since they see them as yet another marketing ploy for the iTunes store. For users who wish to remove the arrows altogether, entering the following command in the Terminal will do this:
* defaults write com.apple.iTunes show-store-arrow-links -bool FALSEAlternatively, one way to change the functionality of these arrows to something useful is to reverse the default behavior of the arrows and instead of having them show similar library contents upon clicking them, instead of having this behavior result from clicking with the options key held down. To do this, users should enter the following command in the terminal:
* defaults write com.apple.iTunes invertStoreLinks -bool YESThese commands can be reversed by entering them with "TRUE" and "NO" at the end, respectively.
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